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  • Bunnyman23454

    So far, last year when I got Pokémon TCGP for my iPad ,it was only like, a week after that I got a crown rarity flame patch.Crazy, right?

    13 January
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I think? I don't play TCGP anymore, so I don't know what any of that means. It's obviously good, though, so I'm happy for you!

    • Bunnyman23454
      Bunnyman23454

      thx☺️

    • Bunnyman23454
      Bunnyman23454

      crown rarity is the rarest rarity.

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    13 January
  • Bunnyman23454
    Bunnyman23454 earned the Combo Breaker badge.
    Earned badges for 5 different things in one day (now you can say it was 6!).
    13 January
    • Joeybear7
      Joeybear7

      wow, that’s a good one

    • Bunnyman23454
      Bunnyman23454

      thanx

    • Joeybear7
      Joeybear7

      yea I’ll take 1 Large French Fry, Some Chicken Mc.nuggets and a Plane Cheeseburger with nothing on it

  • Bunnyman23454
    Bunnyman23454 earned the 5 Likes badge.
    You received 5 Likes. We like that.
    13 January
  • UnovanZorua

    So, I've looked at the activity leaderboards a few times this week and there's something strange. I've noticed that some users have been getting hundreds of points out of nowhere (I think it's happened before, but I have more reason to mention it now). This could be due to getting rare badges or an absurd amount of reactions, but it's usually happening to users who have been flagged, so it could be the flags being negated. Also, you and @Thur55555555555 are pretty high on the weekly leaderboard. Do you think they're negating the effects of wrongful flagging, or is it all just reactions and badges?

    10 January
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I'm not sure. I noticed @TechHog jumped dramatically and was surprised because they haven't been on in I don't know how long. I figured someone was doing what I do and scrolling through a person's page and looking at their comments, giving reactions. However, if you're right and the mods are listening and removing the effect of unnecessary flags I would be so happy.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      If you look the main example @TechHog has jumped in likes and agrees I think someone is just liking them for fun. It started when I felt a little sorry for them having so many flags like me and so I gave them a few agrees on some of their flagged posts and it got them a medal. I think someone else picked up on that and has been mass agreeing since. @Hades0918 and I have been very active this week and we both react to about anything we read which causes us to jump dramatically because we had a long conversation.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Oh… I do that often, too. I haven't recently due to lack of time, but that makes sense. Dang…

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      I have 989 points.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      You're getting there!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      994 now! @Hades0918 just a few more likes!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Make some comments and I'll get you there!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      OK I will on “A fearsome new Pokémon”

    • Candy0_o
      Candy0_o

      Is this about the flags situation? If so ill help @Thur55555555555 out

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Yeah. They used to be level 5 but flags took that away.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      999 points now!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      1002 now!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      I AM *****!!!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      And it has been disagreed.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Could be worse...

    • UnovanZorua
      UnovanZorua

      I think @TechHog getting to 1st place confirms that it's reaction spamming, since I don't think undoing flags alone could do that. That's unfortunate for us. Also, it seems to be happening to other users at much faster pace now, which is interesting.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Well, I guess we will have to settle for 2nd place.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Or maybe we should all mass reaction each other to equal it all out.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I've alreay been doing that

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Me too but I was referring to anyone who doesn’t like anything they read.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Ah. My b

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Well, someone might be mass rationing me. Idk but I gained like 100+ lols over night.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      That's awesome! I got a whole lot of the 3 positive reactions (not 100+ though). Thank you unknown reactor!

    • UnovanZorua
      UnovanZorua

      I'm not in the top three anymore

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Welcome to the club. You'll be back soon, though! You did it once you can do it again!

  • Hades0918

    Hello, rando!

    12 January
    • fineasmatei
      fineasmatei

      Whos rando?

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Rando is a random person,often referring to a stranger. Usually someone unimportant, but I don't mean it that way. I just figured since I don't actually know any of y'all then y'all are randos

  • Bunnyman23454
    Bunnyman23454 earned the 10 Comments badge.
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    13 January
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    13 January
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    Bunnyman23454 earned the Name Dropper badge.
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    13 January
  • Bunnyman23454
    Bunnyman23454 earned the Photogenic badge.
    Little things like uploading a profile picture make the community a better place. Thanks!
    13 January
  • XM01
    XM01 earned the 5 Agrees badge.
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    12 January
  • Hades0918

    Don't ban me for bothering you, but I want to explain our side of the flag issue

    Near the end of September of last year, @Thur55555555555 got attacked by an unknown flagger

    Shortly after that, they left

    I was attacked too, but I didn't get it that bad

    A few days after @Thur55555555555 left, the flagging stopped

    Well, on December 1st @Thur55555555555 came back

    And with them, the flagger

    However, the flagger was much more aggressive this time

    In just a few days of @Thur55555555555 return they gave them over 200 flags

    They haven't stopped, either

    @Thur55555555555 now has over 800 flags

    I have 188

    @Joeybear7 has well over 200

    @PokeMom244 received over 200 in just two days of being here, and they still haven't done anything wrong

    We asked for y'all's help, tagging @Mod_Nova and some other mods, as well as TPCi people

    We got ignored

    The more y'all ignored us, the louder we became

    We reached the point where every other day we were tagging y'all

    We weren't trying to be disruptive or cause problems

    We wanted our voices to be heard

    We finally get acknowledged by you, but you didn't even help us

    You explained the purpose of flags and told us to stop

    We didn't stop because you were still ignoring the problem

    So you shut down the main post we were communicating on

    When we moved to a different post, you shut that one down too and threatened to ban us if we kept it up

    I don't understand why you want us to be quiet so badly

    We are simply asking you to help us fix a problem that have been effecting us for more than a month and you won't let our voices be heard

    You act like we're causing problems, but we're not

    We aren't forcing people to join us, or accusing others of being the flagger, or even flagging you mods

    We are simply using the available resources to peacefully demand change

    You told us to address the problem in the proper way, but didn't tell us what that is

    All I'm here to do is ask that you point me in the right direction so that I can get a fix to the problem

    Thank you for your time

    8 January
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Commenting so that it alerts you this is here

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      You told us you read your profile, so please respond

  • Candy0_o

    I want to start an argument. Flags shouldn't be removed. Change my mind

    December 2025
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      ... This is offensive! (Kidding) Maybe they shouldn't be removed, but that's only if a proper system can be put in place that can prevent its abuse. However, that is highly unlikely to happen, so removal is the best choice. Plus, flags don't seem to actually do anything. You get two points taken away. That's it. They don't seem to lead to bans. If we keep reports, which are watched over by humans, then we can remove flags without worry. They are unnecessary and are being used incorrectly. Their removal won't hurt anything. In fact, things would be better.

    • Candy0_o
      Candy0_o

      What about when someone isn't being immature? What if someone is using slurs all nilly willy and we need to get the attention of mods?

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Use the report. As I said, real humans will watch that, leading to, only if necessary, bans. Flags don't get the same attention as reports.

    • Candy0_o
      Candy0_o

      They're in the same category so that's what I meant

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Oh. Then they shouldn't if you consider reports and flags the same.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Yeah reports need to be taken more seriously by the mods (trust me they aren’t) and abuse/spam flags should be removed. The truth is the mods are bots and they don’t care about comments that get flagged/reported. And sure every once in a while they comment on someone post and it is relevant but that is just because their software recognized some key words and made a response.

    • clasingla
      clasingla

      I think a few of them are bots (specifically @Mod_Ginger ) though I feel like some of the other mods are real people

  • Lonestar85

    Torture does little when we don't speak the Thieves language. Ashes does so let him interrogate.

    10 January
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      … Not a bad point… I STILL SAY TORTURE!!!

  • Hades0918

    Sorry, @Thur55555555555

    Your dots made my page stop working

    7 January
    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Huh. I guess I know how to break a page now. Sorry for causing an issue.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      It wasn't a big deal. Don't worry about it! I was ready to respond with my own dots!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Also how did it break it? I want to know what happened.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      It took forever to load. Even after it loaded it wouldn't move on command. Would sit still for a bit. I LOLed it and it didn't register until much after I clicked it. And then it wouldn't even let me comment.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Weird I wonder if it was because your phone doesn’t have much space or if it would work on another user too?

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      It was my computer, actually (that now has space)

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      OK, cool! I can crash stuff if I do like 5x that!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      You could! You have destructive power!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Mwuahahahahahaha

  • fineasmatei

    Your post removle post was deleted. Sorry I think it was my fault because I mentioned a mod.

    9 January
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I highly doubt it was your fault. It would have happened eventually.

  • Thur55555555555

    @Hades0918 I turned 4*. If all 250 of my flags were removed I would have 1500 points just 500 below you. If I hadn’t taken my break or gotten flagged I would be ahead of you.

    December 2025
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      That is sad. I promise, Snow it's fighting to rid you and everyone else of flags! Also, do you know what I would be at without flags?

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      You would gain almost 200 points I think.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Sigh That would be nice...

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Yep, I could be a five star right now.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I can't press agree. However, I will say that I wish you were. I remember being so happy when I would check your profile and see is close to the same level. All I can say is... VOTE SNOW!!!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      lol I might. Although I don’t think it will do much.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      In all seriousness it probably won't. I did the math and I would get 192 points without my flags since each one reduces my points by 2. Most of them aren't needed!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Yeah I am at 250 flags exactly.

    • UnovanZorua
      UnovanZorua

      I'd gain 240 points if I didn't have any flags

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Dang...

    • clasingla
      clasingla

      I would probably gain around 30 points

    • Pokémon342548
      Pokémon342548

      I would gain 19 points, as no one assume me as a bot and I'm not involved in some arguments such as removing false flags.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      You commented on @Mod_Nova page for @Thur55555555555, so you're involved a bit. I forget you have flags purely because you're never rude or sarcastic.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      I don’t think I am rude or sarcastic enough to have 250 flags @Hades0918.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I didn't say you were. We all know they are just attacking you.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      @Hades0918 lol someone disagreed this top post!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      @Hades0918 they are mass disagreeing your profile 🤣! It is like the calm version of mass flagging cause it doesn’t remove points!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I notices that! It's humorous to me

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Yeah it is so funny because it is like the baby version of when I got flagged!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I hope I'm not screwing myself up by saying this, but it's been a while since I've gotten a flag. Maybe they're done?

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Yeah I was thinking the same thing but I got two more today.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Aw, man!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      @Hades0918 I got another mass flagging today and it took me down 100 points back to 4*.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Gods... You know the flagger is lonely and bored! I wish they would show themselves already!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Yeah, it would be so much better if they just said sorry, removed the flags, and stopped flagging people.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Precisely!

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      The top comment of this thread wasn’t disagreed, it was flagged.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      You know what? Who cares? Yes, we will continue to fight for flag removal, but I'm done acknowledging the flagger. They enjoy the attention. They do not because at give them the reaction they want. I'm done. I'm ignoring them.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Probably the best idea for now.

    • fineasmatei
      fineasmatei

       It might be tempting to clap back at a bully, defend yourself in the comments, or argue with someone who's being cruel online. But that's exactly what many trolls and bullies want—your attention. The more you respond, the more power and visibility you give them. Instead, protect your peace. Block, report, and step away.

    • fineasmatei
      fineasmatei

      This is what I learned in school today

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      We can't block or report though. Our only option is to constantly make posts and comments begging for change.

    • fineasmatei
      fineasmatei

      You can report. With the report button.

    • Pokémon342548
      Pokémon342548

      But we don't know who flagged them.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      @Pokémon342548 is right. That's what I was trying to say but didn't deliver the message right

    • fineasmatei
      fineasmatei

      Oh yeah your right.

    • fineasmatei
      fineasmatei

      I would gain 86 points

  • Thur55555555555

    @Mod_Nova could you please help me. Someone unfairly gave me 198 flags for no good reason and I don’t know what to do.

    December 2025
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      The flags were unjust and unreasonable

    • Pokémon342548
      Pokémon342548

      Hey there @Mod_Nova, we need your support for @Thur55555555555. This is even worse now. The number of incorrect flags to Thur is just increasing.

    • Tacolaser
      Tacolaser

      Please help us out

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      My number has jumped dramatically

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      This comment got flagged. There's no way they can ignore that!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      You really ignored it

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      @Mod_Nova gives us a response either say yes or no just say some thing relevant to this topic.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Please!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Could you at least give us something to show you've read it?

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      SOMEONE GAVE IT A SECOND FLAG, WHO WAS IT!!!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      And you're really going to ignore this, @Mod_Nova. I'll be honest. I'm impressed at how good you are at avoiding this.

    • Flametix
      Flametix

      for the record i gave it a LOL react just now to clear myself

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Thanks.... I think. I just wish they would respond!

    • Pokémon342548
      Pokémon342548

      Hey @Mod_Nova, the number of incorrect flags for @PokeMom244 and some others are also increasing. Please help them.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Yes! Flags are a serious problem and you're ignoring it!

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      Thanks @Pokémon342548,

      But yes please help, this is ridiculous.

    • fineasmatei
      fineasmatei

      Yes someones been flaging me too but @Thur55555555555's flags are way more seriose

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      345 flags now and even if the mods aren’t bot they sure are being as helpful as one.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Your sarcasm is strong on that one! Please, mods. Do something. You can't ignore us forever! I can do this for the rest of my life! And I mean that.

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      I agree with @Hades0918

      The rest of my life......

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      @Mod_Nova I know your online please respond and help us!!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      PRESIDENT SNOW DEMANDS YOU LISTEN!!! She is now your leader!

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      Please.......

      @Thur55555555555 has over three hundred flags!

      This is getting crazy, and your doing nothing about it! Your just ignoring us!
      Lots of people are getting flagged!!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      @Thur55555555555 now has over 800. That's not okay!

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      Its not ok for anyone to have flags for no good reason!

      And your not listening to your leader, President Snow!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Thank you, @PokeMom244! You said that perfectly and made a point about our President! If she says it, it must be done!

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      PLEASE HELP US!!!!!!!!!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Why do you ignore us? The sooner you respond to us the sooner all this will end. If you won't talk to us, please point us in the direction of somebody that will.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Have you even looked at this?

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      im sure they did

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      So am I

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      @Mod_Nova this is your job!!!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I didn't think of that! This is literally what you're here for!

    • Pokémon342548
      Pokémon342548

      Well, eventually, we got a response from Mod_Ginger. He/She said that (1) the mods and the admins are still taking a look at the false flag problem so that they can take effective actions; (2) when a post is flagged, the mods and/or the admins will take a closer look at the flagged post and/or the post owner before taking any other actions such as warning users; (3) repeatedly mention the mods and/or the admins makes the mods, the admins and others "stressed" and doesn't resolve the problem quickly; and (4) the mods and the admins would like to thank everyone who is keeping the forums peaceful as a place for everyone.

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      876 flags now.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      @Pokémon342548 Yes, I read that. My thing is this. We are being peaceful. We aren't running around trying to force people to join our cause. We aren't flagging the mods for attention. We are tagging them and asking for help. The thing about Ginger's response is they didn't actually address our issue. They explained the purpose of flags and nicely told us to stop bugging them. If we feel we were unjustly flagged, tell them which ones. Try almost all of my flags. Try practically all 876 of @Thur55555555555 flags. We've been asking for help since this started. They ignored us. Now they give a useless answer and want us to stop. They even closed my post where we've been begging for help to try to silence us. I appreciate that Ginger acknowledged us, but they didn't actually help. I'm not stopping until they actually assist us on stopping flag abuse. I actually got attacked last night. I went from 113 and 52 to 133 (if I remember right) and 66. The problem is getting worse, so why would I stop?

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      113 and 52 is what I had. I'm now at 119 and 69. No reason.

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      True.....

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      come on please show just a sign that you've read this!!!

  • Honeygun
    Honeygun earned the 5 Likes badge.
    You received 5 Likes. We like that.
    8 January
  • Hades0918

    Very off-beat and off-key

    I wanna be, the very best

    That noone ever was

    DUN DUN DUN

    To catch them, is my real test

    To train them is my cause

    Quick beat

    I will travel, across the land

    Searching far and wide

    DUN DUN DUN

    These Pokémon, to understand

    The power that's insiiiiiiiide

    POKÉMON

    Gotta Catch 'Em

    It's you and me

    I know it's my DESTiny

    POKÉMON

    Ooooooh

    You're my best friend

    In a world we must defeeeeeeend

    POKÉMON

    Gotta Catch 'Em

    A heart so truuuuuuue

    Out courage will PULL US THROUGH

    You teach me and I'll teach you

    POKÉMOOOOOOON

    Gotta Catch 'Em All

    Gotta Catch 'Em AaaAll

    POKÉMON!!!

    7 January
  • PokeMom244

    Hey, can you please help me and others?

    It's flaggers I have over 100 and so do others.

    5 January
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I AM HERE!!! To agree!

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      its flagged.......

    • PokeMom244
      PokeMom244

      Thank you for responding!

      We appreciate it!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      I agree. Thank you for showing y'all see it. But it doesn't change the fact that this is still an issue.

  • PokeMom244

    Hi @Hades0918 do you play tcg live? I'm bored.

    5 January
  • PokeMom244

    Hey @TPCi_GarbageKing can you help us with flags? I and others have over 100 for no good reason

    5 January
  • Hades0918

    I realized something last night

    I don't know anyone here

    Yes, I already knew that

    But what I mean is, if I were to meet anyone here in person, that would be awkward

    I'm not a social person

    I feel uncomfortable in places with at least one other person

    I'm very up tight when you meet me for the first time

    So while yes I feel comfortable talking to everyone here on the Forums, if we were to meet in real life I wouldn't know what to do

    I doubt me and @Thur55555555555 would play ping-pong with a fake beam and Mirror Coats

    I don't think @clasingla would fight with the power of darkness. Although, with them I could talk about D&D to learn more about it. They could also show me Blood on the Clocktower. But I think we would want to do more than that, but what would that be?

    For @UnovanZorua they could teach me about art and show me how to get better, as well as what basics I should learn. After that, though, what else would we do?

    It's been a long time since I attempted to make friends in a real, in person setting

    However, if I were given to talk to some of the people here, I would happily accept

    Anyways, random thing on my mind

    Bye!

    4 January
    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      Yeah, but I think we have learned some of our common likes and dislikes. I am not a social person either but I think we both like food and humor.

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      That's true. I enjoy asking questions about other, but I'm afraid of being annoying

    • Thur55555555555
      Thur55555555555

      I am happy with a conversation because I don’t really have many so you can ask me questions. (Though online probably not any personal ones)

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      True!

  • Anni1i
    Anni1i earned the First Comment badge.
    Commenting is the best way to get involved. Jump in the fray!
    5 January
  • PokeMom244

    Hi @Mod_Cat We need your help with flaggers!
    they are flagging us like crazy for no good reason at all!

    2 January
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Please give us your support!

    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Snow herehere. Acknowledge us or let us talk to someone that will.

  • PokeMom244

    Can you please help us?

    We are all getting flagged so much!

    Especially @Thur55555555555, over three hundred for no good reason.
    Me over one hundred for NO good reason so please..... And many more!

    1 January
  • Joeybear7

    HAPPY NEW YEAR

    1 January
  • Candy0_o

    I decided that instead of drawing attention by making a whole post, I would do my updates here. And this is probably the most personal and open I'll be on the forums for a while so please try to keep an open mind. I'm human. We all are. And no one's perfect. So I don't want it to be where whenever you see my name you think of this post. I just want to talk about my most prized hobby. And sometimes, I don't feel good about things. And I just want to update you guys on my own well being. You guys are my friends. And even though I might come off rude, I don't h@te you guys. Its just a way I process coping and hurting. And ill stop this long intro and just get into it.

    Let's see, where to start...

    I fell into a spiral again 😮‍💨 it was a lot of things at once. I dont really like myself too much, and I think it's because I haven't found my true self. Ive talked a little about my gender identity, but I haven't shared that information with people irl. I tried coming out to two of my closest friends and they shut me down. Made fun of it. They were kinda homophobic and I dont think one of them is now, but still, it hurt.

    I live in a ghetto area and being non-binary is just putting a big target on your back. And, I just told my friends I didn't remember or that I was confused, and I told them I was trying to keep it a secret, but they still told my friends that didn't know in front of me, and I have it all figured out but its like trying to hold a cup of water in your hands. It keeps spilling. And to make it worse, is ive had a crush on someone in my school and this someone is straight (i think) but i just can't let go and whenever I think about them, and I like them. I truly do. But I don't think its mutual, and ive told people i like someone else when the feelings are still not mutual, and my throat feels like play doh that's being gripped, and it feels like I'm the only one having this problem with being probably the only person in my school to be non binary, and i would be the first person in my whole bl00dline to be non-binary, and I think what would happen if i regret coming out, and I really want to know how people would react If I came out, but I don't know and I just want to sit in a corner and just talk to one of my friends.

    Im sorry if that was a lot to process at once, I didn't delete anything from what I just said, and all of it was true.

    Anyways, thank you for reading my venting. I dont mean to burden or anything but I just really needed to put it somewhere. Thank you for just being there for me and talking to me

    December 2025
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Man... I don't know what to say. I'm from an accepting house hold. We let people be who they are. I'm not gonna judge you. In fact, I'm proud of you and admire you. It takes a lot to do this, especially on the internet. And honestly, you deserve better friends. They don't respect you. They aren't treating you right. You need better. About your crush, I don't know what to say. It's been years since I've had a real crush since I'm home schooled and don't have outside activities. I'm not around people often. However, what I can say is you should find someone that wants you for who you are. It shouldn't be about your gender or how you identify. They should want you for you and accept you. Anyone that can't do that doesn't deserve you. I know you can't just move on in the snap of a finger, but just know that if they don't accept you then they aren't a good person. You mentioned not really knowing yourself yet, and that's okay. You can't rush self discovery. Take your time to learn about yourself. I think finding a more positive friend group will help with this. Right now you're surrounded by hate, which makes it harder to be positive. When you find loving people, it will help you love yourself and who you are. Never feel afraid to share these things. We're here for you. Hope your life gets better. 🧡

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    December 2025
    • Hades0918
      Hades0918

      Me? Really? I truly never thought this would happen×